We each have our own way of doing things. As long as no one is being harmed, let everyone do what they will and you do the same. Focus on yourself and the task at hand.
I believe the way I do my job is optimal. I feel like I perform tasks with analytical intention and consider the most beneficial process for not just me, but others. Here’s the thing though… we all think that.
It’s unlikely someone does their job and thinks, “This is the worst way to do this, but I’m gonna keep doing it.” or “Let’s do this to screw everyone else’s day up!” Each of us acts in ways we believe are best and when someone acts in opposing ways, we grow peeved.
Sometimes, instead of realizing these differences in techniques, we act passive aggressively. We may believe this person is acting out of spite and trying to make us mad. Maybe it’s the optimist in me, but I don’t think that’s the intention of the majority of people.
While one person keeps the workspace clean and tidy as they work, another may find it more efficient to clean in spurts when the mess is more noticeable. One person may respond to emails promptly, while another batches their emails every hour. I pour the espresso over the milk and ice while you pour the espresso first then the milk.
Let them do their job how they want and you focus on yourself and doing it your way. If something they do bothers you, try asking them why they do it that way as opposed to being spiteful and passive aggressive. Hear their side of the story and maybe discover a new way of accomplishing your shared task.
January 9, 2023
