When you want something, life will challenge you to see if you’re ready and capable to handle it.
You may think you’re ready for a big change in your life – a promotion, a relationship, more responsibilities, more freedom, etc. – but are you actually?
The Universe has a fun way of testing us on a regular basis, especially when we think we’re ready for the next step. As much as it sucks to be challenged, it’s a necessary step in the process. If we aren’t tested before getting thrown in head first, we’ll likely struggle a great deal. These tests may even show you parts of yourself you didn’t know were there.
I thought I was ready for a relationship – I am mentally, but in reality, I have somethings to work out before I can be half a healthy relationship. I assumed I was a secure attachment type. I thought I’d be laid back, open to negotiating, anything but jealous, and never anxious. That was until I was tested.
I won’t go into the details, but just know I discovered I may not be as secure as I believed. I experienced a lot of overthinking, a lot of anxiety, and was asking myself a lot of questions about what was going on. I did not handle it how I expected.
After having some time to think about it, I’ve learned my lessons. I have a clearer head and know what I need to do in the case that I meet another person I’m interested in. I don’t yet know if I’ll be exactly how I’d like to be in a relationship, but when the time comes, we’ll see how the tests go.
Never be surprised when the Universe sends you challenges. Think of them as your opportunity to prove you’re ready for whatever you’re striving for. Do your best, learn your lessons, and discover if you’re truly ready for the next step in your development.
August 29, 2024
